there is this guy who has been pursuing me for more than a year. I was never interested in him because he was too desperate. long story short I ran into him at my cousins place two 6 months back and we started getting close. 2 months ago he was calling me every night and he would talk about our future together and marraige and stuff. We are both from the same place but i am yet to complete my studies in another state. 2 weeks back i went home and we hung out the whole week and when i had to leave, he said he's gonna miss me so much and that he would come and meet and how he wished i stayed longer. 2 days later, he stopped calling me. I casually asked him why and he replied that he was going through a lot of problems at his work place and home and he doesn't wanna talk to anyone. I left it at that. After a week he put up a picture in whatsapp of him and a girl. It got to my nerves and i asked him who that girl was and if she was his girlfriend or sumthing. I know it sounded needy but he just made everything we had feel so cheap. he answered that she is his friend. Like seriously, he was going through a lot he couldnt text or call but he could put up pics of him and a girl. that was it for me. he hasn't tried contacting me since then and itts been 3 days since i asked him that and im just so angry and i feel abandoned like what i feel means nothing to him. i dont wanna talk to him but the fact that he hasn't called makes me angrier. How can someone so close distant himself so much in such a short span of time. Im so confused.
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You had set with him didn't you? He got what he wanted. He had -and has a girlfriend, you never had anything real. But the moment there is a shift in energy with his girl, he'll hit you up again, and you need to tell him to kick rocks!0