I haven't had actual sex but I have done sexual things and he doesn't know that. He thinks I haven't done anything and if knew I feel like it would hurt him. He hasn't done anything and he already feels really inexperienced so I feel like telling him would make him loose confidence. And to me the other guy wasn't important at all but I feel bad that I'm hiding it but I also really don't want to tell him.
So I don't know which is worse.
Most Helpful Guy
Hide 'things from a previous relationship" ... to some extent, sure.
Lie about your level of sexual experience? I think that's not right.
I'd suggest you tell him. Especially if you're likely on a path to actually having sex at some point.
Most Helpful Girl
It's fine. Everyone has their own secrets to keep anyway.