So I started complaining to my boyfriend that he needed to try and bring in more money. Then he started askiNg around to his friends seeing if they could help.
Maia boy got him a job at a VIP club in giant station. I'm like feeling not so happy about it. I don't want him around bar tenders or hot waitresses. I'm so sad. Of course I told him I'm happy for him cus after all, I did want him to get a better job or a secco do job. But damn. My guy is very friendly with guys and girls. Very helpful. And some might take it as flirting. I don't want him in inviornments like that. I no there is going to be hot girls. And yes I trust him but he does have a wondering eye like most men.
So my point is what do I do now? he is working every Sunday! And I'm off every Sunday. I'm going to loose my mind every damn Sunday thinking of him smiling at girls and girls smiling at him. People help me please what do I do ?:(
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You need to decide if you really trust this guy or not... There's nothing wrong with him working around other women, and if there is reason for not trusting him, then you need to consider whether or not this is really the right guy for you.
I don't think it's unreasonable to be a little jealous at first, but don't let it get to the point where you resent the guy for getting a good paying job or that it ruins your life 'cause you can't stop thinking about it...
He can be friendly with coworkers and customers and still be 100% loyal to you.
Sundays probably aren't the busiest days / nights of the week at a bar so why not become a customer there and visit him every now and then (for a bite to eat and a drink, of course, not just to loiter and distract him), and get to know the people he works with.
He gets paid to be friendly and work well with other people, so don't get upset if he's laughing and having a good time with other girls... He's there to get paid, and unless you have reason to believe otherwise, he probably doesn't have any desire to actually do anything with any of the girls he works with.
Talk with him about it though, don't let it become a problem...1