My old boss' wife passed away almost a year ago. She was 55yo. He is 51yo, handsome, has a white beard (yes, he likes to dress up as Santa Claus), is a little over weight, but in really good health. His wife had a really good life insurance policy, his house is paid off & he isn't rich, but he doesn't have to worry about $$. He still has to work and will work until whatever is normal for retirement.
He asked me what I thought about him dating again?
He wants to date a younger woman who likes to be taken care of and yet, she wants a partner in life, not a sugar daddy. He asked me if I thought any younger women would be interested in him?
He said he wasn't sure how young would be considered too young. He said he really just wants a woman that will love him for him, regardless of the age difference.
Do you know hard it is to get answers out of a man that was married almost 30 years? He is totally clueless how to date in 2015!
- 5'0" to 5'11" tall; the taller the better.
- slim to athletic build; average is okay, but he doesn't want a fat woman.
- likes Asian, indian, vietnamese, korean, filipina (not short & fat), japanese, mexican, columbian, etc women; basically "exotic" alluring women; those with dark hair. (his wife was white and really fat & dint care about her health. she was dirty blonde,)
- he doesn't care if she has big or little boobs, as long as they fit her body type. (i had to ask what that means? he said a tall thin women can have small boobs as long as they go along with small waist and hips. A woman that has measurements like 34A, 32 waist, 40+ hips, and a big butt is not attractive to him. He actually got embarrassed when he told me he likes skinny petite womaen with big breasts. It was funny seeing him blush and act like a little bo caught lying.) AN Asian WOMAN WITH BIG BOOBS WOULD REALLY MAKE HIM HAPPY.
- she can have kids since he never had any coz his wife dint want any!
My question is would you date him, how old are you, what do you look like, etc,
Or you can give comments on what you think would be a good age.
PLEASE do NOT make rude comments.
I am asking this coz i care about him since he is like a dad to me.
99% of the Asian women under 40 yo turned out to be interested in his "money" (it was the first thing they talked about) or did not go out on a 2nd date.
He is currently dating (6 dates) a 42 yo woman. She says she is part Portuguese, French, and Vietnamese. She has 3 children under 15 yo. She too is a widow like my old boss is a widower. So far it is going well.
I will give an update if it works out.
Most Helpful Guy
99% of Asian women won't date him. They will only date him to use him.
That's coming from someone who is dating someone exactly like he described.0
Most Helpful Girl
This made me smile:
"He actually got embarrassed when he told me he likes skinny petite womaen with big breasts."
"(yes, he likes to dress up as Santa Claus)"
"He is totally clueless how to date in 2015!"
Honestly, what made him the most attractive to me was not his credentials but your commentary about the softer, less mail-order-bride -_- side of him. Tell him THAT is what women this century are looking to date.
As for the age difference, it's not impossible but he and I would have to be a damn near perfect match to balance out the con of a 30+ year age gap. I'd advise him to date all ranges but to concentrate on those right near his age or in the 50s. If he's really set on dating younger, his best bet is the 30-40 year age range, and to resist temptation by straying no earlier than the 28 year mark.
"PLEASE do NOT make rude comments. I am asking this coz i care about him since he is like a dad to me"
^This is very sweet :)1
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