I was waiting for my boyfriend to get home and I saw a number on a small piece of paper on the floor (New York number, we live in New Hampshire), and it said "Lisa" on it. It didn't look like his hand writing and the number wasn't called or texted on his phone. I called the number and a guy answered (a guy that sounded gay at that). Should I be concerned? I'm trying to work on trusting him more but I get nervous sometimes. I haven't asked him about it and just put the note back where I found it.
Most Helpful Guy
Well... this is interesting...
I would give the call another call or two and see if you can find out more1
Most Helpful Girl
I tend give trust until I am given a reason not to. If I get a guy feeling I act on it. It is naive not to.
Personally, I would give him it and say," I found this on the floor , it think this must be yours" ... that way he knows you have seen it. Then take things from there.
Don't become paranoid, just see what his reaction is when he knows you have found it. Sometimes we can make wrong assumptions, but we can only stop doubting if we are given a reasonable explanation.
Trust is important in a relationship , but it should never be given away freely.0