so I've never had a boyfriend or anything serious. I'm just not really the sort of person that people want to date it seems, I dunno. I've got with guys on several occasions, nothing serious and never as far as having sex, but recently I got with this guy at a party. We did some stuff (not a lot) and he messaged me afterwards asking if I was ok etc blah blah... Anyway, I didn't 'like' him at the time but since we got close at the party I feel like I'm getting feelings for him. How do I make things get serious? I don't think guys think I'm serious/wanting to date anyone, no one has ever asked me out which is a little depressing. So how can I get things to move from getting with him once to actually seeing each other?