Most Helpful Girl
I hope she does lol. ALSO
"and I fear hurting my wife. she is really sweet and does not deserve to be hurt by my friend"
She is being hurt by YOU, jackass. I hope she finds out so she can leave you and find a dude who deserves her.
Most Helpful Guy
Dude, your wife is really sweet, YOU are the one hurting her!
She deserves to know what a selfish man you are, who does not appreciate the beauty that is right in your own home. Instead you go whoring your heart out to other women, how shameful!