HI, I've been dating this 38 year old guy for over 3 months. Things have been good. He works a lot and I have school and work so we communicate a lot by texting and calling between our dates. I've met his daughter and he has met mine. I've also met his coworkers (surgents) when they were at a pub. We were going to meet eachother there. I met him and we sat there for a couple of hours. I noticed one day that he was extremly busy (he would tell me he had a lot to do and that he was stressing). I started reciving only god morning messages so I didn't contact him as much. After a week of almost no communication i text from him Sunday night telling me he misses me and misses our talks. I told him i felt the same. And then didn't hear anything. On wendsdayn I texted him that I understand you have a lot on your mind and need to focus on that right now and that I want you to do that. But when you go silent on me without telling me why you hurt my feelings. Im not mad or anything I just want you to know how that feels. So I will leave you alone (this is the part i f*? k up), just wanted you to know why I won't text you :) I basically told him that Im breaking up without reading my text back to myself!! I was trying to be sweet!! Not breakup with the guy... So he text back that "Im sorry, I dont want you to feel that way". Stupid me didn't notice anything wrong so I write back: No worries, Im good :) It was until later I read the message and found out what an idiot I am. So i tryied to call him, no answer. I texted him explaining myself. And he wrote back that Yeah he misunderstood then. He also said that he is very sad after he read my message and that he left town for the weekend and his phone was out of service. He also said that he misses me but his head is in caos after the message. He said he would call me after work last night, but i got a message late last night telling me he had such a bad day at work and had no energy. He didn't call.
My question is what to do?
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It did take him back a bit in the beginning. But you did clarify your actual intentions soon after wards. It prolly hurt him some initially but was released that you weren't ending the relationship. Give him time to get back from where ever he went and meet up. It will be ok , don't be so down on yourself0