Short background. She works the desk at the gym I use. Asked her out last year, got a yes, then she panicked or something and cancelled at the last minute. I still see her once a week, we talk, we're friendly, it goes pretty well, she smiles a lot. but we don't hang out and don't talk much outside seeing her when I do.
Point is I missed my weekly window to ask her in person, but it sounds lame when I say I'll wait until I see her again when I can just call her. But is that still a thing? random phone calls?
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Text first, to start chatting. Let that last a few hours so she's more comfortable around you.
Most women will not say yes to dating a guy they do not even know. Hanging out one on one with someone for a few hours you haven't really spoken to? Thats where you went wrong.
Spend more time chatting as friends, even a few hours worth, before asking her out. Then she'll be more comfortable around you and you're more likely to get a yes.
But also remember that, she'd then be dating a customer... Which, well lets just say, I would never do that. When I'm at work, I'm just not romantically available to customer or colleague. It's unprofessional...
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