Most Helpful Guy
TRUST is key for a relationship to work period. I'm not blaming you for anything, It seems he doesn't trust you though. Even though nothing happened, It's easier for him to think you cheated then to trust you. Don't ask me why. I was like that too in my first relationship. There was no reason for me to not trust my ex, but I did. I think it was more a self image thing. It's easier to believe someone would hurt me then love me, kinda thing. Man looking back do I see the errors of my ways.
I really am sorry to say this. But you've done all you can. A relationship is about trusting up until there is solid proof otherwise. You being at a friends house is not solid proof that anything happened. That is what being vulnerable is, trusting someone else. You've told him the truth and HE refuses to believe it. I WAS that guy before, and its TOTALLY not fair to you. If he's really lingering on it, you need to give the ultimatum that he either trusts you or the relationship could be over. I mean, in all honesty, you can't have a functional relationship unless both trust eachother. And right now he's refusing to trust you. I totally can see where this guy might be coming from. I get it. But really, It should be your words above all else, as far as the relationship goes. Because if you don't trust your partner, then what the hell is a relationship for?
Most Helpful Girl
You just have to be able to show him you love HIM. Show him that you love him they way he feels loved... some people feel loved by you doing stuff for them, some sex, and other things. Do that and stay away from other guys for a while... especially one on ome situations. Never text drunk anymore.