My boyfriend is always straight-up about everything. He doesn't lie. So when my boyfriend (23) and I first started dating he said "oh I'd fuck her" (talking about his old babysitter who's almost 30) but later said he was joking. I don't know how it got brought up again about 7 months later today, but I brought it up again.
He said "if I was single, I would" and I said "do you want to be" he said "no, I'm pretty happy where I am" and I was like "would you still now?" And he said "if I was single or if I was with you?" And I said "both". He replied with "no"(about if he would fuck her). Straight-up told me no.
Should I still feel upset about this? I know he said he would if he was single but he did say no when I asked if he would either way. I know that he wouldn't lie to me and that if he wanted someone else, he wouldn't be with me. I feel like he was joking. Would you guys be upset about this? I'm just a really sensitive person. I personally think that he meant if he was single, which he isn't, he would obviously fuck other girls, but he doesn't want to be single and he's with me. He tells me that if he was interested in other girls he wouldn't be with me. What do you guys think?
- Yes, you should be upset.Vote A
- No, he's with you. He doesn't want anyone else.Vote B
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I have a boyfriend who's the same. Where he would never lie and honest 100% of the time.
No he's with you he doesn't want anyone else. Never start those kinds of arguments because you just go in circles. Since he's not lying to begin with. I know if I kept bringing something like that up to my boyfriend and acting upset. He would get really annoyed over it since he would see it that it's stupid since it doesn't matter. He's the same 100% honest all the time and always thinking logically.
It's hard but keep reminding yourself about how honest he is and just think about what fun things y'all do. Try to distract yourself.0