This has led to me cheating on her for a week. I want to be with the girl I cheated with. But, my girlfriend would kill me.
Talking to the police is not an option, as being an Indian guy is the worst thing to be in the US. We are either supposed to deal with it, or be labeled as abusers (especially Indian men). I am not sure who to even talk to.
What do I do? I have to hangout with my friends and cheat behind her back. And pray I do not get spotted by her. My girlfriend is Korean, and knows martial arts.
Most Helpful Girl
I was in a very mentally abusive relationship on and off for seven years. I didn't always realize it or I brushed it off like it wasn't that bad. We have 2 beautiful children and he took on the role of a father to my oldest. So It wasn't a matter of just getting up and walking away. I also believed strongly in family and always believed in trying and sticking things out when things weren't working out. There were many times I questioned if being with him was right but always pushed those thoughts away. Looking back now I can now see things a bit better and I can see how everything was about him and what he wanted or what he was best for him. Even though he is with someone new he is still extremely manipulative and has done some unthinkable things to me. It has been questioned a few times that he might be dealing with an mental illness not that it's an excuss for what he has done but it makes a lot of sense. You need to get out of your relationship because it is extremely toxic and it is much better to be alone has hard as it might seem then being with someone who is abusive. It literally chips away a bit of you every time she says or does something to you. You need to get help though by seeing a professional who can give you a safe way out and the proper steps needed to move forward. Your girlfriend has a lot of insecurities that need to be addressed and she should go to counciling or therapy of some kind but she has to be the one who can admit she has a problem. in the meantime you need to take care of yourself.
Most Helpful Guy
What the hell. Fuck her dude. If she is a physical threat just text her or something.
"Yo bitch, Fuck you I'm done, Never want to see you again"