Also, he doesn't really call text much, he'll text once or call once a day but he'll keep the conversations so short and won't really say much besides the same mundane everyday small talk. "How's your day" (the usual small talk)... Is he just not that into me? Also, sometimes he'll invite me to go to a motel with him but then he'll leave afterwards because he says he has to meet his dad... He does invite me places toz why won't he chase me more? yes we have sexHe'll say how much I turn him on. Then once over the phone I told him "do u really know what u want? Are u sure " and he said "maybe I have to figure it out" yet he has asked me to "be his girl" a few times and when I say yes, the next day, he'll just say how he "wishes I was his girl. What does he want from me. He isn't always "rude" like that. He does show he wants my opinion on things. He would tell me "why can't you be my wife" when I was teasing him in bed and said I'll be his mistress (he's not married ).
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He is just enjoying the times with you , sex and every thing else that goes with it but doesn't want anything to serious for now, just wants to enjoy single life for now, maybe is still trying to figure out his path in life or a career? Basically you are very convenient for him right now with the arrangement you have and he likes it this way. I wouldn't mind this arrangement either if I still want to do my own thing and still be eligible if someone else came along and your not exclusive with him