The story: Started talking to this girl, 25, very pretty, great personality, and job. The most important thing, I felt the feeling I was looking for when you're around someone. She made me smile uncontrollably. We go on the first date, it goes great, we set up a 2nd. Go on the 2nd date it goes great, at the end she even told me she wanted me to give her a kiss, so obviously we did. We set up up an entire weekend of hanging out next week! Thurs we planned to attend a German fair event, Fri my place I was going to cook her dinner watch movies, then Sun her mom actually told her to bring me over to watch a football game! This is where it goes astray? We hangout this Thursday, go to the event in town, have a blast, buy her grandma some Christmas gifts, kiss again, say our goodbyes. The next day I text and say "hey we still on for tonight?" she gives a couple excuses, apologizes and cancels. I send a short quick response obviously because I'm sour, but it wasn't mean. I think I said "it's cool, sleep tight". No text back from her. Next day nothing all day, so I call around 3pm, she doesn't answer. No call back, no text back. Next day which is today (suppose to watch the football game with her family) NOTHING all day? Bored I browsed Facebook and see she was on earlier to make a post about booking a vacation in like 2017... So she has time to post, but not text/call me? I guess I'm just super confused and stunned. Is this a hard to get game? Did she lose intereast? Is she hoping for me to keep reaching out? I'm lost. I texted last, and called, both unanswered. I'm no stranger to cues, so correct me if I'm wrong the balls in her court. Anything else from me I would assume is too much, clingy, and desperate. Right?
Girls, Stops texting me out of nowhere? I'm confused?
What Girls Said 1
Be patient. If after a week she doesn't respond, then ask her about it, casually. The thing with women is, if you've become super close in a short space of time, and you've met family members, and all that, she might feel like it's getting serious, and she needs to take a step back to assess the situation. Maybe she was just enjoying time with you, and now it feels like maybe you're something more than casual... just give her a little time to deal with her emotions. Or maybe it's not you at all, and a close friend needs her time and attention, just be cool about it, not clingy.0
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