Basically my ex and I have been dating for 4months now. I knew he was friends with his ex's from day one I was ok with that I trusted him. Then two of his ex's an done of his ex's mother started to try and make comments which wer hanging a dig at me and one even made up she was pregnant. I tried to talk to him about it all after all the drama died down but he kept trying to change the subject or he got angry and spoke very loudly so everyone around us could hear us arguing which obviously shut me up as I don't like people knowing my business.
I'm still pretty hurt by everything that came up it and every time I broach the subject he kicks off as he thinks I can't let it go and I'm throwing his past back in his face and what happens with my ex's isn't his fault? I'm not happy with the fact he goes running to his ex's bitching about me to her and turning to her in his hour of need. nor am I happy with Nasty remarks being made by his ex and her mother. I have done and said nothing to provoke any of this! Four months on and I out my foot down I told him to block all ex's and their family members out of his life he told me he did, I had a lovely evening the other night and abit of wine and suddenly blurted out if he deleted everyone ex he said very one but one. Despite him telling me he blocked everyone a few days before. To me that's not good enough and he's lied to me and he's threatening to leave me because I won't have his ex's interfering in our life if he loves me I think he should do so I tried everything to kept them in his life but when our relationship is being jeopardised I think I have every right to it my foot down and ask him to get them of his life completly ... He's choosing them!
Am I in the wrong or is he? I don't know what to do I really love this guy by I can't compete with the ex's he says he need to move on from?
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If a past relationship is causing that much drama, tell him to let go. The past is the past and he is with you now. He shouldn't be worrying about what his ex is doing. There's a reason she's an ex.1