- No problem with cuddly girls
- Don't like cuddly girls
Most Helpful Guy
I understand hating being touched. This one chick gave me a hug--two hugs, actually, and one after she knew I disliked being touched--and I said, "Don't touch me, god damn it." Then she turns around and hugs me again a couple months later. That time I just quietly endured, 'cause people were looking at me like I was crazy--like it's fine for a female to touch a man whenever they want, but if I went up to hug a female, she could put me in prison. Anyway...
But for a girlfriend? Touching is sort of an important thing in a relationship. Of course, I might understand if it happened entirely too often. Like, he's trying to change the oil and you cling to his back. You can have too much of anything. Hell, you can drown if you drink too much water. So, like anything else, it depends on 'how cuddly'. Are we talking occasional carebear here or like boredombash.com/.../Overly-Attached-Girlfriend.jpg
Most Helpful Girl
The last guy was a weirdo. I've had one like that, and it made me insecure like you feel now about cuddling. It's normal to want physical intimacy to a varying degree for each person, but no cuddling is more of an intimacy issue.