Would you confront them or let it slide?
What would you say to them?
Most Helpful Girl
yea i recently went through this... in the beginning he pursued me it was all bliss and romantic, then he stopped making effort to impress me or see me and was all excuses. worse feeling ever. its like were still together but he has no time for me? i actually did confront him several times... i asked him straight out over the phone if he still wanted to be with me or see me, and each time he said yes. i asked him if he still liked me and he said yes. he chose the days he would be able to see me and i worked around that. but he always made excuses that he was tired or lazy and i dumped him. he texted me after that and i never replied because i know i deserve better. actions speak louder than words and if someone has no desire to impress you and run after the hills to come see u so u can at least kiss, makeout, netflix and chill, then why even bother with them, they obviously dont value u. so u need to cut it off and move on cause chances are they have other options. and i refuse to be a sidechick.