I've known a guy for more than a year (off and on work) who started coming on to me about oh 6-7 weeks ago so we've seen each other two times and keep in touch pretty often email/text/phone/Skype but he seems to stay away here and there, but he always returns lol
I try to keep contact initiation balanced of course I don't want to create pressure - so I try to let him know he's in control yet I do show him enthusiasm when he reaches out.
Anyway, my question is, I want to let REAL LIFE be a factor and not follow some bull**it advice but that he's not taken me out yet on any real dates yet kinda makes me wonder if that really means what people say, like if he's not making a big effort to impress me it means it's low interest?
I'm not looking to be difficult, but of course, the more we talk the closer I feel to him. He has made it CLEAR that he wants to have sex but he's respecting my choice to wait - so I just want to go a tiny bit slow, or know it's exclusive before *that* happens - just trying to avoid being hurt. However note that we're incredibly attracted to each other.
Of course the best answer will come from him when I talk to HIM but for now, what do you guys think?
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I think he's trying not to mess it up. I am more than 90% sure. He is calculating and carefully taking steps. See, dating is not always related to the 2 people. It is highly linked to their pasts. Maybe he fucked it up real bad with someone else before and doesn't want to make the same mistake again?0
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