Most Helpful Girl
Everywhere... I am a gamer girl who plays halo.
Most Helpful Guy
Check your local universities and see if they have gaming groups. There are also gaming communities that you can find on social networking sites where people get together for tournaments and such. If worse comes to worst, just make up a gaming club, find a place to chill and post ads yourself. Chances are there are hundreds of people around you hoping for the same thing.