Most Helpful Guy
Well probably because sooner or later they expect to be ditched too.
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think people hate you for changing jobs and traveling to a different country. But if you change friends all the time, then that gives people the perception that you don't value their friendship and time so why should they value you? Of course we want to be with people who are reliable, dependable, and trustworthy. Who would want to invite an unstable/ flaky person to their birthday party if you're just going to cancel at any minute and mess up the catering count?