Anyway does anyone have stories of a girl saying "Sorry i just wanna be friends", the normal guy says "sure no problem" then later she changes her mind and develops feelings for you? This is also assuming it is a girl the normal guy sees on a daily basis
cause everytime a guy gets friendzoned, everyone else just tells him to go no contact to both build some attraction, and to move onto a diff girl in the mean time
Are there situations where its completely hopeless? ie not the girls type physically? anything else where its hopeless?
very curious on the answers. thanks all!
- yes, depends
- other (post what)
- no, never
Most Helpful Girl
I have developed feelings for someone who I had only considered a friend for a while. It was the product of how close of friends we had become I think.
I wouldn't count on that in many cases, but I don't think the "friend zone" is real so much as just something women say to mean they aren't attracted to a particular man. Since it isn't a real place, it's quite possible to leave it. ;)
That said, it's probably best to respect her wishes to only be friends and not hang around hoping for more. You're more likely to get hurt and less likely to find someone else who is right for you. I wouldn't count on keeping your distance to build any attraction either, but it could be better for you in the long term.
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Most Helpful Guy
She will only do that when she realize she is getting old and can't attract the guys she is attracted to anymore because she is losing out to the younger girls. This generally occurs as women near their 30's and then she is basically picking you out of desperation not love.