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I think whoever asks for the date should pay. AND that it doesn't hurt to pay, split etc. personally my boyfriend pays for the date always, i've tried paying for it and he doesn't let me.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
I think whoever asks for the date should pay. AND that it doesn't hurt to pay, split etc. personally my boyfriend pays for the date always, i've tried paying for it and he doesn't let me.
I have always said that it isn't the man's responsibility to pay, it's personal choice. I always suggest people go dutch.
I wouldn't expect the man to pay on dates at all. I'd prefer to pay my own way.
I remember whrn I first started going out with my boyfriend and I didn't feel right about letting him pay, so we would split the bill. He wasn't happy about it one bit. Now he doesn't mind because I let him pay more times.
What I'm saying is, most guys actually want to pay and show they can. Specially if they like you and isn't just casual.
Well... I would personally be ok with paying for the first date, but after that I would prefer to split the bill. If she's not ok with this, I'll be calling it quits. I mean... she isn't my friend, girlfriend or wife at that point, so why should I keep paying for her? The only exception may be if she's broke and genuinely can't afford to pay.
I just don't get why so many guys are worked up about this. It just doesn't cost that much to entertain a woman unless you are trying to put on a big show and if a woman expects that you should look for another woman. But quibbling over a few dollars? If I was a woman and a guy did that I'd be out of there, nobody wants to be around someone like that. What kind of a life would you have with such a man? I'd look for a guy who was open handed and generous not because I was greedy or grasping but because I wouldn't want to be around a cheapskate.
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