I was the potato of the family back in the day. But their relationships, the idea that love can make you do crazy shit scared me to the point of being terrified of having a relationship.
Now I've moved far away from my sisters for college and I don't feel as overshadowed as I used to be nor am I scared anymore. I began to fix myself, be a little more like my sisters appearance-wise with a streak of my childishness still there.
Even though I get compliments now, being told of how beautiful I am, having guys catcall me, I have never been asked out. I began to get insecure and conscious because the potato-me was still there inside me.
Am I just not good enough to be asked out? What is considered 'good enough'?
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:( I'm sorry you still feel like a potato. I think maybe guys can't tell you're interested in being asked out. maybe you somehow give off the impression you aren't interested or maybe they assume you're already taken.