I have a friend and coworker named Nancy. She's super energetic and adorable, if at times anxious or flustered. Earlier this year, I asked her out and she said she had to think on it. She sent the following message a couple days later:
We continue as friends. A week after that we hung out away from a group for first time. She took a great summer job out of state but moved back a couple months ago. It's great having her around more.
My question is the whole "go on dates right now". I've heard through the grapevine that her anxiety has been a factor in not dating. Is there a way to lightly ask again or seek a more definitive answer? I'm unsure how she feels about me. I have had recent hints she enjoys being close but I don't know.