Most Helpful Guy
It can be years to never. Being shy can also lead to severe anxiety and complete locking up to the point you cannot even talk to them without stuttering, going blank or hyperventilating. Since that is so embarrassing and hard to over come, some guys simply avoid the whole situation totally, and therefore never ask the girl out.
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Most Helpful Girl
Not long if you help him out and ask him to take you on a date. You're not asking him out, but you're telling him you want him to take you on a date. So for me it wouldn't violate that unwritten rule of girls asking guys out!