Why do guys seem interested but then they act different the moment you show interest?
What Guys Said 1
I read it all, but I just want to answer to the title.
It's like when a kid is asking to her parents for icecream. He begs and begs for hours, and they always say no. After some time, they get tired of his begging and cave in, asking "Alright! What flavour do you want?" and they're just like "Huh ? I dunno, I never thought I'd made it this far".
Point is, sometimes it's just the idea that is appealing, and not the actual thing happening. Like when people fantasize about crazy sex stuff, but they wouldn't actually do it.
The movie High Fidelity depics this thought in a nice way, in the sense that we may aspire some things, but in reality they always have flaws, and at some point, he start to think about those flaws before we live it, sparing us the regret.
(I don't think it's the hard to get thingy, he's either not interested, or just afraid of what can come out of it)
I wish you luck on your next encounters :)2
What Girls Said 1
He's probably only interested in the hunting part. He doesn't get the same thrill when he manages to actually get the girl. It's a sign of immaturity.1
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