So I am 20 and she is 22, and I have a strong crush on her. She is also likely to like me, but I am not sure yet.
Anyway, do you think it is a good idea to date a slightly elder girl?
She double majors in English Literature and Mediebal Arts, which makes her, compared with girls at the same age, appear to be more classy and elegant and more like a "lady" not just a "college girl".
Is it a good choice for me?
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I distinctly remember being about 5 years old or so and assuming my dad was older than my mom. When my mom told me she was older, I said "no you're not. Daddy's the man so he's older." I don't know where I got the idea that the man had to be older, but it has stuck with me. So I personally would never date a girl who's even a day older than me.
But that's me and it's not rational. The bigger issue for you is that you're not of legal drinking age so there might be a lifestyle difference that would be tough to overcome, at least until you turn 21.
And I *think* a lot of girls, maybe the classy ones too but maybe not, are naturally more attracted to guys who are at least a little older than them. So personally I'd be worried that some 24 or 25 year old guy would come along and steal her. But again, that may be completely irrational.0