Most Helpful Guy
Its time to let go
this guy is simply using you as a spare wheel and will come back to you whenever he is out of options
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes people are just not sure how they feel about the other person. Maybe this is what is happening with him. He seems to like you, but isn't sure how he feels other than like the time that you two have spent together.
I agree, he's being super flakey. I say pay attention to his actions. He slept with you, now he is being distant again. I don't know if he is being distant because he got his jolly on, but what I do know is that this guy has a pattern of playing a disappearing act. Is that really someone you want to keep in your life?
in my opinion it's better to not worry too much about those types of people. If he really wanted you in his life, he would be contacting you, making plans, arranging dates, etc... But the fact that he has done none of that, shows me that he isn't too concerned. He may have liked the time you two spend together. But he may not be as into you as you'd like him to be.
I would find another guy, or at least keep your options open and see how this plays out. There is no point in wasting your energy on one guy. Since you are single, you are free to see other people, just as he is. So take that opportunity and keep yourself busy. If he contacts you, and you feel like going out. Then go out with him. But if you are busy, let him know that. It's not game playing, it's just having a life. I think sometimes people hang around because we allow ourselves to be at their beck and call. Don't expel too much energy trying to make plans with him. If he likes you, he's going to make the time and put in the effort to do that. Like he even said, he should have called. But he didn't...