Hey there, I've asked out a girl and told her to have a drink with me.
She replied that she can't because she has a boyfriend.
Does it mean that if she didn't have a boyfriend will she gave me the chance to show my value?
Thank you, I'd like to know if it is more a rejection or simply it is the bad timing.
I forgot to add that also the next day she sat next to me in science class, which usually she doesn't on her own. I was and still a little confused about the current situation.
Mainly because it is the first time in my past 23 years of existence that I ask out a girl lol.
Most Helpful Girl
I was sitting here analyzing this situation and then it hit me. The fact that she told you that she has a boyfriend is a red flag in itself. She's saying she either is in a committed relationship already and you can't pursue her, or she's making it up completely to send you a message that you can't pursue her. So either way, and trust me, I know myself from experience how hard it is to move on from someone you really like, but I think you'll be wasting your time. Even if she made the boyfriend up and is slightly interested due to what she did in science class and with the playful punches (because to me that sounds a little flirty), her mind games aren't worth analyzing and frankly quite strange. If you like someone, you're going to want to go out with them. Unless maybe she doesn't like drinking or something, but still. I'd move on. You can choose to be just friends though and maybe that will be rewarding, but I suggest moving on from your feelings for her is key if you want to be happy in the long run.0
Most Helpful Guy
Is probably a bad timing. She is probably a very loyal person, and has a lot of respect for her partner thats why she didn't acept the drink. And is weather she would said yes or no if she wasn't in a relationship.0