I've been seeing this guy for a little while. He told me up front that he is very shy but he likes me. We've been out a few times and it is never super awkward or anything but he doesn't really say much. I talk quite a bit, so I just talked about all kinds of things and I asked him if I was getting annoying when I was talking a ton on our first date. He said he doesn't mind. He just sits there looking at me the entire time. He shakes his head or says a few things in response to my stories and it honestly feels like he's really listening to me. He's never even taken his phone out when we go out.
i genuinely enjoy spending time with him. We went on a walk after our last date and at some point we just sat on a bench with his arm around me and said nothing. The silence really wasn't awkward at all. I really enjoyed just sitting with him.
I know a little bit about his family, where he works, what he's studying in school, and a little about his friends. He just doesn't offer up much without me asking. Are all guys like that? Is it normal? I haven't been on a date since high school and I don't even remember how this stuff works. Can anyone help me out
Most Helpful Guy
Some people are just like that. I can do that for hours. Literally0
Most Helpful Girl
If he's shy, then that's totally normal. It sounds like he's a good fit for you so far. You're enjoying each other's company and leaning more about each other over time.
Awesome! I hope it keeps going so well for you. :D0