Ok. So sometimes i feel like he's a player but then i remember that he never looks for girls attention but rather THEY come seeking him. Howwever he's nice, so when he talks to someone he pays attention, interacts with them, often talks back and smiles or laughs if they said smthng funny etc.. so u feel "connection" with him. I gotta admit this wasn't hard for me to find out as i am this kinda person too. I am nice to people, when i talk i pay attention and i always make froendly convos with aquaintances, they eventually become new friends easily.
BUT the thing is, im not a player. So if i like someone i only pay attention to that guy and after multiple convos with him i only flirt with HIM and only him. But today i happened to find him flirting b1ck with this girl and he was very sweet and flirtatious with her. This got me wonderinh , wtf? And second i knw he likes me cuz he always only tries to reach for me among all the other girls trying to make him fall for them. But i also dont like to play games for this long (2 months already) and this is seriously getting on my nervs
Most Helpful Guy
Well idontneedaname, i think you should go with how you feel, because some things are hard to say since you like him and you feel that he's a player and you also remember that he never looks for attention.
If i were you i would go with the flow, if he does like you he would ask you out or hinted it out in the most obvious way, unless its the opposite where you really like him but he's sorta playing hard to get.
As a girl of your age you have to think what would make you happy? and Would you be happy being with him? even if things don't work out (touch wood) its normal since everyone probably dated more than once. Just don't over think things unless your best friend tells you to.0
Most Helpful Girl
Just don't players are trouble!0