(Background: this girl and I are in college - and we have a couple of classes together, so we talk a little, but usually just in class and about school stuff, nothing deep or personal. We're friendly, but it's not like we ever hang out or anything.)
Last weekend I got free tickets to a dance at our school, so I texted her and asked if she'd want to go. (I would've liked to ask in person, but the dance is this week and the school basically gave us no notice it was coming up - so I wanted to ask her asap.) Basically I told her that I got free tickets and that I felt like she'd be an interesting person to go with.
She said yes and that it sounded like fun - but I can't figure out whether she thinks this is like a friends thing or a date. What would you think if it were you? I meant it in the date way for sure, but I'm not sure how to clarify that, or if I even need to clarify it, now after the fact - any ideas?
Also: I've seen her a couple of times in class since then, and she's not acting weird or different. We talk a little before class, just like we always do. (But then she's also kind of quiet and reserved, I don't really know how to read her, so I don't know if that means anything or not.)
- She probably thinks it's a date.Vote A
- She probably thinks it's a friends thingVote B
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I would take going to a dance as a date unless you stated otherwise. Hope it goes well!1