I told him the day before that "Maybe I'll get you out of the house this weekend. I've been thinking of some more dates ideas :)". He said, "sure sounds fun". So, essentially, in my understanding we have made plans. The next day comes around, I bring up some date ideas for either Saturday or Sunday that we could do. His response was just, "I'm sorry I can't this weekend. I already made plans to hang out with my friend. We can hang out next weekend." WTH!! You're busy with your friend for the entire weekend?
Because of my own individual insecurities, I assumed the worst. I thought he was gonna be spending the weekend with another woman. But he's not like that, and I should know better than to assume that.
Why do guys essentially make plans and then bail? Do you think maybe he didn't see it set in stone because I said, "maybe I'll get you out of the house..."? I don't know, I'm just very frustrated right now.
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The open ended vague way you said " maybe " very well been why he really didn't take it as your saying we are getting out of the house this weekend. Rather than leaving it to chance that he would be stuck at home for the weekend he made plans with his friends. But it makes little to no sense that he will be with them all weekend unless they are going out of town or something3
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