Let's say a perfect balance is out of the picture, is it better to be very similar, or very different?
Most Helpful Guy
It's a mix. Opposite attracts but also same feathers flock alike. It is about being on the same wavelength, but still having individual and gender differences which complement each other.
Most Helpful Girl
I prefer guys who are similar. I really do. I've seen too many people fight and break up cause they want different things out of life. Different personalities means compromising and often give and take. If you have 2 people with similar life outlooks and interests then it just makes things easier. In the relationships that I've been in where we were similar it was always much more peaceful and relaxing. However with my last ex who I loved a lot it went more difficult cause we were different. That was what ultimately what led to him leaving me. Our personalities clashed and he didn't understand me just like I didn't understand him.