Now he is living 3 hours away from me because he has holidays and his family has a house at the beach.
He expects me to go and visit him every weekend but he is not able to come and visit me.
He is insisting a lot, saying that he will pay mi ticket and some oh his messages say things like" You should come every weekend to the beach because I hate the city but to see you is very important for me. It makes me happy"
Most Helpful Guy
"I love him more than he loves me."
Welcome to the female/male dynamic, as for taking advantage of you.. how is paying for your trip taking advantage of you? How is inviting you to a beach house taking advantage of you? Tell that mothafucka to pay for my trip up; I want to be at the beach right now.
Most Helpful Girl
Well, if he truly thinks that and hates the city, then he loves you and you're overreacting.
It's not that he doesn't love you enough, he's just not a fan of big cities.. Going to the beach is good, just relax and enjoy your time with him.
There is always that ugly chance he only wants sex tho 😔