Long story short: a guy from my old town had a thing for me, but we never knew each other too well. I moved and he added me on social media to keep in touch. He always made it pretty clear that he was into me. After I went through a style change (bye-bye blonde, hello electric orange) he began acting more interested. Everytime I'm in town I honestly almost always blow him off or make an excuse, but at this point he's been trying for so long that I almost feel like he's earned at least a dinner date.
I don't know, we live cities apart but I go into town to see family a lot so it couldn't hurt, but at the same time I never felt too interested in this guy. Then again, we have never officially hung out. Should I just give in and give it a chance?
Most Helpful Guy
"I almost feel like he's earned at least a dinner date."
I don't think that's really the best mentality to going about it. If you don't have the hots for the guy then you just don't have them. And if you go on the date and you still don't have them it'll be worse because now he thinks you're interested or you're playing hard to get so even if you say no after that he thinks you just want him to chase you even harder and he'll end up doing that.5
Most Helpful Girl
no. never settle. it's wrong for you and him3