how to stop getting so easily attached? i've always been the one to care too much or do too much for the guy, i always get attached so fast, how can i prevet this to become a strong independent woman? i find that i develop feelings and get easily attached to the person without even really knowing them that well. i also find i'm always waiting around with my phone for him to text/call. i do have a busy social life and play sports and activities, even the thought of him texting me would be on my mind though. it's like the more we hangout and get intimate, the more my feelings grow. they grow too fast though. i want to make sure he's the right guy before falling for him, how do i do this?