- independent women
- dependent women
Most Helpful Guy
Independence is a must. But not necessarily in the way you described. I mean emotionally independent. Like someone who is a whole person without the need for someone else to make them whole. A couple should compliment each other, not require each other to be whole.
I don't mind paying for dinner. I don't mind being protective when needed. I don't mind opening the door. I don't mind taking the lid off the jar. I don't mind fixing things for her. But I DO mind someone who is emotionally dependent, insecure, clingy, etc.
Most Helpful Girl
No lol this is one of the contradictions of men. They don't want a golddigger, they complain about having to pay for everything, then on the same breath they bash independent women saying we're not "feminine enough".
Of course not all men are like this. But many are and it's confusing. But we women do contradict ourselves as well so, I guess no one's perfect.