Most Helpful Girl
No I don't think you are being selfish at all. I know if my boyfriend was treating me like that I would be very hurt. Of course you want to spend quality time with her! Your her freakin boyfriend! Like you pointed out you are both busy and the fact that you are willing to take the time to be with her shows you are a great guy that wants the relationship you have to actually go places. It seems to me that she doesn't care as much as you do if she doesn't care about being away from you for that long! Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Be honest. If she doesn't feel the way you feel then you need to find someone else who will actually give you the time of day. That's the end of my rant... I hope that helped.
Most Helpful Guy
It honestly depend on what kind of relationship you're expecting out of this. It's clear that you both are really busy people and you've got goals you're striving for, but it's quite clear that she has more things going on than you do at the moment, that's why you're feeling what you are right now. In my opinion I would put this relationship off hold until both of you got enough time to build a healthy relationship, and if things don't work out in the future, it wasn't meant to be. If you're seeing her 2-4 times a month you're being tied down hard, you're young live life man.