Also, at what point do you finally make the jump and know it's ok to go to their place or whatever. I'm just trying to be cautious.
Most Helpful Guy
i think just the basic stuff. meeting in a public, busy place would be best. then, obviously not having him pick you up, so he doesn't have your address. if you're really paranoid, make sure he doesn't see your car lol. i wouldn't suggest having a friend follow you guys. because, if i was the guy, and somehow found out about that, i would feel almost offended! at least, i would think 'whats the point? she clearly doesn't trust me at all'
other then that just go with your instinct and use common sense!
Most Helpful Girl
Tell a friend/family member where you are, meet them with a friend or a couple of them and hang out as a group, don't get into a car with them, give a friend/family member their name and phone number.
I would suggest video chatting with this person if you already haven't so you can know they are honest about their identity. Don't tell this person where you live, where you work or go to school. And of course, stay in open public places! And if you have a bad feeling, follow your gut instinct and end the meeting and leave.