I had a crush on this guy for a while now. He's hilarious and kind and more gorgeous than anyone I've ever laid eyes on. I've actually never felt that fluttering in the stomach or chest until him. He asked me out on a date and I said yes. I didn't know much about him at that point. I was working at a restaurant bar and he's been coming in a lot. Sometimes with his friends sometimes alone. But when he picked me up at my apartment he picked me up in a Ferrari F12berlinetta. That he just recently got. I got in and right away I start questioning myself. Asking myself should I say nice car because my God it's hot. Or will that make me look bad. I wanted to know how he could afford it. Most 22 year olds can't. Even if he's making payments that would be big money. So he commented on me being quite. I apologized and shook it off. The restaurant he took me to was fancy. I didn't feel like I dressed up enough compared to the other women there. He told me to wear a dress. I did but it was a sweater dress. He looked me over when he came to my door. He told me I look "perfect". But I felt so far from that once we were at the restaurant. Everyone was nice I didn't get funny looks or anything but I still felt strange there. We got to talking and he told me he's been wanting to ask me out for weeks but until recently he couldn't tell if I was into him. I honestly don't know how he saw much difference than I was a week ago but I'm happy he asked me out.
I grew up with barely any money. Parents living pay check to pay check. In fact that's kinda how I'm living now. A little better but not much. I work 2 jobs. God I like him so much he's incredible to be around but I don't know how to ease up over the money. I feel like in my case fortune holder and penny counter won't mesh. He asked me to a party at his parents and you can just guess the "house" he grew up in. Once again everyone was nice maybe seemed a little awkward around me but nice. He danced with me...
I have sort of talked to him. He asked me if I was okay when he was driving me home.
When we stopped he asked me again what my problem was and after the kiss I felt like nothing was
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as your guy friend on here i will first translate his phrase:"you look perfect" aka I'm going to have a really difficult time not staring at you. Sure you looked way less fancy and rich but to him he see's something he really likes/loves. As well its important to maybe ask him to not take you all the time to fancy places. maybe tell him about your favorite place to go eat at...
Cause Im going to tell you from my own experience with a rich friend.
they arnt insulted if you suggest something thats not a expensive place to go but like a little "hole in a wall" place that does authentic food.
Cause as much as sure he wants you to enjoy yourself. As welll if you explain that the restaurant serves your favorite meal im sure he's going to be super interested. Just cause to him your probably as forign besides the dating part. And finally its not odd or weird that your insercure about the money difference but im sure he would understand if you asked not to always go to fancy places to eat. But make sure you explain that you will not take money from him as long as your living on your own or if he moves in with you. At least while you are still dating as it would look as though your taking advantage of him which is no good for ether of you.1