We both said I love you already (really immature I know but it happened). He used to call me all the time and now he just texts me. In days where he's really busy, he used to find the time to text and say sweet stuff like he loves me but he's been really spacey on saying that stuff. Not saying he's giving the cold shoulder, he still calls me darling and baby and babe and stuff. He still texts me and wonders why I don't text him back when I don't text him back. Basically, it seems he still wants to text me and talk about random things. I don't mind the spaciness, but it does make me curious if it was because of the sex that he lost a lot of interest but not all of it since he still wants to talk to me? If he lost interest, he'd break up with me right? He's in the military too so he's a naturally busy guy so I give him the benefit of the doubt. But I guess it's cuz he still likes me but the chase is over so the lovey dovey suck up level dropped? Opinions?
Guys, I had sex with my boyfriend of 1 month and now all he wants to do is text me. Seems interested enough but not as much. Help?
Also, if he doesn't say I love you anymore, should I just not say it too? I don't mind, I just wanna know how to go with the flow.
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