Im 23 and missing out?

Anonymous

My life is a mess right now, broke, can't find a house, stuck at my mothers house and I feel controlled, im in school but I dont enjoy life because im controlled in this house, im misisng out in 6 months I will be 24 and im scared that my life will never begin, I feel old, I barely go out to enjoy my youth or hobbies anymore, im so depressed, I ve neverbeen in a relatio ship either

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Im 23 and missing out?

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Most Helpful Guy

Pyrofox
mho 21%

Well first step back take a deep breath and sett up a plan on how to get a part time job and keep going to school and make a way out of the hole your in. Every part of life is like opening a new door. Calling yourself old at 23 hahahhaahaha sorry but thats not old. old is 60 years old to eighty years is old.

Start eating healthy, excersise and get out side the house and who knows who you will find.
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- Tomsta
  
  I feel for the OP i've felt old at 23 ... you'd be surprised how many people have a "quarter life crisis" and feel old
  
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- Pyrofox
  
  @Tomsta Eh! I've heard about it but dwelling on it isn't going to be making guys want to date you. If the first thing you bring up is your living conditions and your age its like a major deal breaker right there. Guys arnt going to be interested in that stuff, what they want is to get to know you not your situation or age.
  
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- Tomsta
  
  You do realise you're talking to a guy right
  
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- Pyrofox
  
  @Tomsta nope lol sry my bad lol but yea i know about mid life and quarter lif crisis
  
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- Pyrofox
  
  I guess its just that you both got time to turn it around in the mid 20's its more if your single, than if your 50-60's you can end up in possibly screwed with no real way of fixing it.
  
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Most Helpful Girl

Anonymous

take any crap job you can get, work as much as possible, then move out.
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- Asker
  
  i can't even find any crap job!
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
  look harder.
  
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- Asker
  
  already done thatttttttttttt
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
  then stay at your mother's crying about how hard your life is forever.
  
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tony72722
mho 11%

You're fine. Just focus on your goals/hobbies and all the other things will fall into place. Focus on making money so you can become financially independent. That would be a huge confidence boost for you.
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