Anyways we talked.. Everything seemed good. We laugh, talk, tell stories. Sometimes she initiates and sometimes I do. But she never flirted back with me. Anyways, suddenly she stopped texting me. Why do you think? Am I too good to her?
Most Helpful Guy
I'm going to ignore the fact that you signed up as a girl on this site, assuming it was a mistake.
But yeah, that's one of the sad truths of life, man. At least in your early 20s. It's rough, because sometimes it seems like being a jerk is the only way to get the girl. And if you're not a jerk, you don't want that. I just broke up with a girl - or rather, she broke up with me - because she's still in love with her ex husband, who cheated on her for 5+ years. She gave me all the platitudes about what a nice guy I am and how I say all the right things, but of course that doesn't help. All I can see when I read those texts is "you're not a jerk, so you don't do it for me." But I don't want a girl who's into me because I'm a jerk.
Most Helpful Girl
So you live in the US and she somewhere else. Maybe that's why. I don't think there are a lot of girls who willingly start a long distant relationship. I think that's why she didn't flirt and that she stopped talking, who knows? Maybe she didn't feel like it or was just busy with other things.
You should try finding a girl nearby.