I have been talking to a guy from dating website for 2 months now. He currently just moved 6 hours away. Since we never met in person while he was close, he is now offering to send money to come visit him. He offered to send money because I currently don't have a job and need to save the little money I do have. I told him I wasn't comfortable doing that. I would feel obligated to pay him back and who knows when I would be able to. He said he considered it an investment in our relationship. lol that part made me laugh. In general, I don't like to take people's money, so I am having a hard time deciding.
Thoughts, comments or concerns?
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You're not "taking" from someone if they are willingly giving you something.
He wants to be with you.
So, in all fairness he is seeing his money has not lost in this case
It's a nice gesture... I would take it if I were interested in him.
Just make sure he is legit first.
Have you voice verified? or did seen eachother on cam yet?0