He didn't get me an Christmas gift, and I understand that, I mean, I'm a bit disappointed but I can't expect much from him, but the least he could've done was be grateful for it instead of getting upset. I didn't even tell him to get me anything, I just wanted to give him a present. Lately he's been confusing me with this whole relationship (that's why I said that rant in the bottom text) .
It doesn't seem so bad in this text but through FaceTime, he ignores me, somewhat gives me the cold shoulder, the whole shenanigans. Why?
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He is a bit pissed because you guys agreed to not make each other's gift, but you went ahead and bought him one anyway. That puts him in the position of the boyfriend who didn't buy a gift for his girlfriend and he hates it. He thought you guys were clear. Now he feels bad and he sees it as being your fault which it is. You were not ill intentionned of course and he should try to remember that, but you have put him in a difficult position by disregarding your agreement. You could try returning the gift?0
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