Was she just being nice? Girls?

So I met a girl on a dating app, we've been taking daily for just under a week. After a few days I said we should meet up when she's back in town (she's at uni for the next two weeks) she said hmmmm that's not a terrible idea ;), I can't work out if that was a good a bad response, maybe she was just being nice? Also I don't want to be texting her daily before she's back as it might seem needy, would it be a good idea to stop for a day or two?


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  • I think she's a little tentative, but she is definitely flirting with you and likes you otherwise she'd make up an excuse or say no. :)

    If she makes effort to keep conversations going also and/or messages you first, don't worry about how often you two talk. If it's just you making all of the initiative then take a little break and see if she initiates a conversation at all. The tricky thing is you don't want to seem like you are not interested in talking to her, either. So if you just drop off the face of the earth for a few days she might start to wonder. Maybe just message her less? You could send her a text in the morning and tell her something like : "'Just saying hey. I hope you have a great day today. :)" and I can guarantee it WILL make her day. But then she doesn't feel like she has to keep a conversation going, either.


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  • Good response -- it just sounds like she's being flirty.

    And personally, I do think it's a good idea to not text daily. There's only so much you can talk about over text.

  • Me personally I love talking 24/7! I suggest you don't play games and if she really like you she will admire that you care to text!


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