Well this one girl I've been talking to we hit off everything right. She had just gotten through a bad break-up but I had known her for some time and was starting to get close to her more and more. Anyways, we were having a convo last night and I told her about how much I care for her and would honestly be ready to date long term if she was. She said something along the lines of, "No one is ever as sweet to me as you are..." before she didn't reply the rest of the night. My only messages the rest of the night were just me expressing more of my care for her.
Anyways, this morning I get a text from her saying, "Fuck I'm so dumb". I told her she wasn't and she said she was and that she did something "very bad". I asked her what and had to ask again to get an answer. Turns out she's sleeping with some guy as a rebound after the break-up. I was upset because I'm not someone who's big on doing stuff like that and expect the same from a partner. So I tried to mask it by just saying I hope she used protection. She then went into details that I honestly could have lived peacefully without ever knowing. The topic trailed off quickly but now I don't feel so hot about her...
Should I even still consider dating her? I've known her and cared for her for a while but if she's just going to sleep around and then also tell me about it then I don't think I could do that. She was asking if I was possibly planning a date any time soon but I said I don't know (lies) and would have to look at my work schedule first. Should I just move on?
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Run. Run as fast as you can in the other direction.
I hate to say this, as you seem like a good dude, but this girl isn't into like that. There's just no way that she'd act like this if she respected and liked you.
You mentioned that the other guy is a rebound, and that's probably true. Unfortunately, though, I think you're a rebound of sorts too. You're giving her attention and being sweet, and she wants that right now, just like she wants sex with the other guy.
So yeah, cut contact with this one.4