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Well don't grab it. That may catch her off gaurd. If you slowly and gently reach for it then that should be okay. I would find that cute.1
Well don't grab it. That may catch her off gaurd. If you slowly and gently reach for it then that should be okay. I would find that cute.
I would not recommend it if you haven't met prior UNLESS you two have unbelievable chemistry.
For me, no. I'm a bit weird about public displays of affection with new romances. I keep my love life very private until things are serious. I would feel uncomfortable.
It depends entirely on how the date is going.
After chatting for a few hours I was comfortable with my boyfriend holding my hand because I really liked him and we connected well on a personal level.
And yes, we did meet online, then met in a public place during the day.😛
Oh man, for me I think I would love that. It shows that a man is very confident and gentle. That he is slowly appreciating you for just being with him on that date- of course some people also like there comfort zone. It just depends on what she's like. If you think she wouldn't mind, do it- but get to know her a little better first before you full blown hold her hands.
I think if the date went well and it's towards the end like you guys are going for a walk or something that'd be fine. Like get to know each other a bit more and get an idea of how the date is going / how she feels about you. I think it sounds nice though :)
Dont be too quick to do that as you are just getting to know her. However after a date or two , you could try. First dates , i think you should try to feel the person out and find out what they like and dont like. I mean you might say "But I already know" but online people can lie and you won't be able to read their facial expressions or body language. You still try if you are bold and won't take a negative response that bad ,
From my experience, I think it totally depends on how the "date" is going. Holding hand can be totally awkward if I feel zero connection with the guy.
With my boyfriend, it went so well we were kissing on the first date and everything went quickly.
I don't know it would have to be going pretty well for me to be comfortable with that. Second date no problem but I might feel kind of awkward or forced in the first date.
If I go on a date with a man, I have to like him first, to feel attracted to him and to like his personality. So in that case I won't mind it, I would even find it cute.
Depends on how the date went. If it went good then I don't see why not.
If I really liked him and wanted to show him that I like him too (hoping the feeling is mutual) yes I would hold his hand
i'm good with it. it just makes it clear that he's into me xD
Not the first date unless we were friends previously and already knew you. Second date though id find it perfect.
It depends. If she likes you, It would be nice. But she does not, it would not. You should take your chance anyway. I was okey in my dates in past.
On my first dare with my wife, I kissed her before we even said hello. After that went well, I was quite sure she would be fine with me holding her hand.
I really like it!! I mean holding hands is gentlemanly and clearly indicates at least a casual commitment to pairing off. But, it's very low key innocent etc too. I think it shows a clear breakdown in barrier that allows for a relationship to develop.
Don't just copy what I do because those things that suit me might not suit you.
On a first date I often grab her hands and walk down the street with her the moment I see her. I'm just conveying "It's alright to touch" and that makes her also less awkward in touching me. I just grab their hands like it's the most natural thing to do and I never had any problems.
This probably worked because of my personality and the personalities of the girls in question. If I was shy about doing this I am sure it would not have worked.
I'd say if you do it do it naturally and don't make it look like it is a big thing.
On one of my online first dates, there was no physical contact even thought we had a great time. Then another first date and we were kissing and petting below the waist, in public.
It depends. Go what you feel is right.
If it's your first meeting after meeting online, I think it would be a safer bet to offer your arm.
I generally try to do something physical like this first date, if I like the girl, but there's definitely a fear boundary there.
Who cares, its just holding hands. You aren't getting married. Besides, being bold is what women like, being an agreeable loser is boring and thats men like that dont go on dates
I don't think I would like holding hands on the first date.. That's like a couple thing to me..
do what you feel like doing, dude. That's what women respond to
Just go for it, if you two are walking side by side no harm in it, i have found this to be true.
Some are even willing to hold your penis on the first date 😉
it's holding her hand man... you should have had your first kiss by then
Guage her, but if she's that stsndoffish it says something about how she's feeling towards u
I've done that. I went far on a first date once but I had talked to her for 3 months first
I'm gonna say no on a first date.
Many likely are.
With my last two gf's I did that on the first date
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