Okay so facts:
*we had sex once, it was too early in the relationship (he didn't finish)
*i understand guys are spacey and insensitive sometimes
*i gave him a chance to break up a couple of days ago but we're still together so I'm assuming he's still into me
*he recently told me he "loves me but isn't in love with me and wants to take it slow"
*stills texts me almost everyday but not as much
*calls me but very seldom
*Bf is in the military
*bf places utmost priority to religion, family, and career
*long distance 2 hours and he's busy all the time
*this may be an adjustment period or he really is spacing out
I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt that he is actually busy. Assuming this is just him being a guy and he DOES NOT want to break up with me, how do I get him to at least romance me a bit more with sex off the table? Also guys, what characteristics about a girl could make a man want to stay/leave? how can you tell if he actually likes you or of he's in this relationship with you for the benefits or he doesn't have the courage to tell you? How do you get a guy intrigued again after sex too early? And im not saying I wanna be #1 priority, but how do I at least get him to value me a bit?
We both had sex and now my boyfriend isn't trying as hard. Help?
Okay so facts:
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Ask for it? If not maybe try something unexpected or sexy to get him in the mood. Maybe a surprise visit with no panties on or something, but pack panties just in case he doesn't. If that doesn't really work then he might not be interested anymore.
Guys look at a girl differently if they give it up too fast or too early, maybe he just thinks of you in a different eay now because there's really nothing for him to chase anymore. You gave him the physical you and now has to try to ease into the you you really are and a lot of guys don't really wanna do that.
Still at least try to talk it out0
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