*we had sex once, it was too early in the relationship (he didn't finish)
*i understand guys are spacey and insensitive sometimes
*i gave him a chance to break up a couple of days ago but we're still together so I'm assuming he's still into me
*he recently told me he "loves me but isn't in love with me and wants to take it slow"
*stills texts me almost everyday but not as much
*calls me but very seldom
*Bf is in the military
*bf places utmost priority to religion, family, and career
*long distance 2 hours and he's busy all the time
*this may be an adjustment period or he really is spacing out
I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt that he is actually busy. Assuming this is just him being a guy and he DOES NOT want to break up with me, how do I get him to at least romance me a bit more with sex off the table? Also guys, what characteristics about a girl could make a man want to stay/leave? how can you tell if he actually likes you or of he's in this relationship with you for the benefits or he doesn't have the courage to tell you? How do you get a guy intrigued again after sex too early? And im not saying I wanna be #1 priority, but how do I at least get him to value me a bit?